BABY MAMAS MAKE IT DIFFICULT FOR GOOD FATHERS
Men all over the country get a bad rap for not spending enough time with their children. I am not speaking about men who are married with children or those brothers who are just dead beat dads, but those who truly have interest in their children’s' lives.
As a man, I truly believe that you should do all that you can to keep your family unit together but at what point does it become detrimental to the child?
When I was married and contemplating divorce, I under estimated the importance of keeping the family unit together. The juggling of the children I think is a disservice to the kids. Although my ex – wife is an ass, I do all that I can to maintain a good relationship with her for the sake of the kids, but it is hard.
I have a partner who has a 2-year-old daughter with a woman who was conceived in an irresponsible moment of passion. He thought that this was the women he would spend the rest of his life with but soon learned that she wasn’t the one. She is now a straight up bitch because he has moved on. He was with her all during her pregnancy and shortly after this daughter was born but her and her mother made it difficult for them to co-exist. He now sees his daughter every couple of months although they live in the same city. He says it’s just easier to wait until she is older so that he can just communicate with her directly and limit the interaction with the mom. I don’t know how I feel about that.
I understand his reasoning but is it fair to the child?
What about those children who are conceived in adulterous relationships or those kids who are a result of a one night stand?
How do you propose men deal with bitchy baby mamas?